Applying to college is a lot to handle, but nothing is as taxing as figuring out how to pay the bill.

Navigating the financial aid process solo is something many students have done before, and with a little guidance, there is no reason you can’t do it successfully too.

When cost is a major issue, your instinct may be to limit consideration to state schools, but do not rule out private colleges on price tag alone. Many offer generous financial aid packages that include merit-based scholarships and grants. And once you know the price tags of your target schools, you’ll be able to figure out what you can afford through a mix of scholarships, grants, and federal and private student loans.

If your parents won’t pay for college, here’s what you need to know and do before you start your college applications.

1. Fill Out the FAFSA®

Completing the Free Application for Federal Student Aid (FAFSA) is necessary to be eligible for federal aid like grants and federal student loans and—in some cases—school-based and state aid.

The first thing you need to determine is your dependency status as defined by the FAFSA. If you’re an independent student—which only applies if you meet one or more of these federal requirements—you won’t need your parents’ tax information to complete the FAFSA. Note that these requirements are more specific than not living with your parents, your parents not claiming you on their taxes, or your parents not contributing to your college education.

If you are considered a dependent student, then you will need your parents’ income and other details from their prior-prior year tax return. If your parents are hesitant about providing their financial information, reassure them that the FAFSA does not obligate them to pay for your education. By providing their information, it will help you get access to financial aid to help you pay for college.

If they do not want to provide their information, then you can continue filling out the FAFSA on your own, and check the box that indicates you don’t have access to your parents’ information.

As a next step, Jamie Dickenson, owner of an educational planning service in Charleston, West Virginia and author of Too Smart for the Ivy League, recommends filing a letter of special circumstances with the financial aid offices of schools you are applying to. “Private universities will probably be able to work with you better than public universities, which are under federal- and state-mandated guidelines,” she says.

To file a letter of special circumstance, reach out to the financial aid offices at the schools you’re applying to and ask for what they require. You may need to provide documentation, including court orders, proof that you’re living on your own, or a letter from your counselor, teachers, or other adults who know you well and can speak to your circumstances.

2. Target Schools Known for Their Scholarships and Aid Packages

Be strategic about applying to schools that have a reputation for offering generous aid packages, both merit- and need-based. “Colleges are the second-largest source of tuition aid, second only to the government,” says Debbie Schwartz, cofounder of Road2College. “So for most students, choosing which colleges to apply to is the most important phase of the admissions process.”

To do this, look up colleges that offer the best financial aid packages early in your search.

Your high school counselor will be another resource to tap. They likely have financial aid office contacts at a range of schools and can offer insight into financial aid opportunities beyond what you’re able to research online.

3. Identify Scholarships You Can Apply to as Early as Possible

Private scholarships are sometimes pretty niche, targeting specific majors, genders, ages, and special interests, but they are everywhere. Finding ones you’re eligible for will take time, but free sites like Free Scholarship Search from Discover® round up millions of scholarships help. You’ll want to start early; scholarship deadlines aren’t necessarily in sync with application deadlines, and they can be as early as a year before you begin college. And whatever you do, don’t be put off by scholarships worth less than $1,000. They’re usually not nearly as competitive, and they can add up. Keep in mind that your scholarships may reduce your financial aid package, so let the financial aid office know about any scholarships you may receive.

4. Consider Private Student Loans to Fill in Gaps

If between scholarships, grants, and federal loans, you come up short on covering college on your own, consider a private loan, which is funded through a private bank or lender. There are a lot of options, so you’ll want to choose wisely, and you may need to get a cosigner since many undergraduate students don’t qualify on their own. A cosigner doesn’t have to be a parent; it can be any adult with good credit who trusts you, like an aunt or grandparent. Remember, that if you were unable to pay back the loan, your cosigner would be responsible for repaying it. It’s a big responsibility, and your potential cosigner may have questions or concerns that you might need to talk through together.

Private student loans can have either a fixed-interest or a variable-interest rate, which can change based on the indexed rate, and is based on several factors, including your credit history (and your cosigner’s, if applicable). Like federal loans, private loans may offer in-school deferment, but making monthly payments while you’re in school helps reduce the overall cost of the loan. Remember to read the fine print and compare loan terms, like rates, repayment options, and other benefits to ensure the loan meets your financial situation.

5. Think About Attending a Community College

Some students who are paying for college on their own find that a combination of community college and working can be helpful to save money, accrue credits, and enter college on more stable financial footing. Attending a community college can also be helpful in letting you build your grades, seek scholarship opportunities, and really assess what you want to study in college. Other students who pay for college on their own may take a year or two off to work before applying to undergrad; while a college degree can be necessary for success in certain fields, taking some time can help give you a chance to decide what you want to study and to prepare financially.

As overwhelming as paying for college without parents can be, there are resources to help you figure it out. If you do your research, meet your deadlines, and apply to colleges where you’re a strong candidate for aid, you should find yourself with school options come spring.

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